How To Stay Safe Online: A Simple Guide for Seniors

The internet is genuinely wonderful for staying in touch — video calls with grandchildren, church newsletters, pharmacy refills, the news without waiting for six o'clock. It is also where most of the scams aimed at older adults happen now. The good news is that the people running those scams rely on a very short list of tricks, and once you know the list, you'll spot them. This guide covers the tricks, the habits that beat them, and a numbered set of things you can do this week to lock things down.

The scams that actually show up in West Tennessee

• The tech support pop-up. A page fills your screen with alarms and a phone number, claiming to be Microsoft or Apple. It's a web page, not a virus. Real companies don't put phone numbers in virus warnings. Close the browser (Ctrl + Shift + Esc, End Task) and see the virus signs guide.
• The refund or subscription email. "Your Norton/Geek Squad/Amazon subscription of $399 has renewed. Call to cancel." You never had it. The number leads to someone who wants remote access to "process the refund," then claims they refunded too much. Delete it.
• The grandchild in trouble. A "grandchild" or "lawyer" calls: accident, arrest, bail money now, don't tell Mom and Dad. Hang up and call your grandchild on the number you already have. Real emergencies survive a five-minute phone call.
• The government or bank impersonator. Social Security, Medicare, the IRS or your bank says your account is suspended and you must move money to a "safe account" or verify your number. Agencies write letters; banks never ask you to move money. Hang up and call the number on your card.
• The romance scam. Someone you met online is attentive, has an emergency only money can solve, and can never quite manage a video call. If a person you've never met in person asks for money, stop and talk to someone you trust.
• The look-alike login page. An email link goes to a page that looks exactly like your bank; you type your password, and now they have it. Never log in from an email link — type the address or use your bookmark.

Habits that stop most of it

• Never give personal information to anyone who contacted you. Passwords, Social Security or Medicare numbers, bank details, one-time codes texted to your phone. If it might be real, hang up and call back on a number you looked up yourself.
• Look before you click. Hover over a link and read the address at the bottom of the window. Check the sender's actual email address, not just the name — anyone can type "Amazon."
• Keep the computer updated. Let Windows Update run and restart when asked. If you're still on Windows 10, free security updates ended in October 2025; Microsoft's paid Extended Security Updates program keeps eligible enrolled PCs patched for a limited time, and I can check which situation yours is in.
• Use long, different passwords and let software remember them. Nobody can remember fifty 12-character passwords. A password manager stores them behind one master password and fills them in; Bitwarden has a free plan. See the password manager setup guide.
• Turn on two-step verification. After your password, the site texts a code to your phone, so a stolen password alone isn't enough. Email first, then banking. Never read that code to anyone who calls — that's exactly how they get around it.
• Hang up. It feels rude. It isn't. Scammers count on politeness. "I'll call you back" is a complete sentence.

Do these seven things this week

1. Write down where your important accounts are — email, bank, pharmacy, Social Security, Medicare, Facebook — and keep the list somewhere safe. This is your map for everything below.
2. Change your email password to something long and unique. Your email controls the password resets for everything else, so it matters most.
3. Turn on two-step verification for email and banking. Look under Settings > Security on each site, or call the bank and ask them to walk you through it.
4. Check that Windows Update and your antivirus are on. Start > Settings > Windows Update; and Start > type Windows Security to see green check marks.
5. Freeze your credit for free at each of the three bureaus (Equifax, Experian, TransUnion). It stops anyone opening accounts in your name and takes ten minutes each. Unfreeze temporarily if you ever apply for credit.
6. Set up a password manager, or ask a family member (or me) to help you do it.
7. Pick your "check with" person. A son, daughter, neighbor, or me. Agree that before you send money or share information because of a call, email or pop-up, you'll check with them first. Then actually do it.

If something already happened

1. Don't be embarrassed. These scams work on doctors, engineers and bank managers. The only mistake is staying quiet.
2. Disconnect the computer from the internet if someone had remote access.
3. From a different device (your phone, a relative's computer), change your email password, then banking, then anything else you used the same password on.
4. Call your bank or card company using the number on the back of the card. They deal with this daily and can reverse or block transactions quickly if you're fast.
5. If you bought gift cards, call the card company (the number is on the back) and report the cards as used in a scam. Keep the receipts.
6. Report it at ic3.gov (FBI) and reportfraud.ftc.gov. It helps, even if you don't recover the money.
7. Have the computer checked for leftover remote-access software before you trust it with banking again.

When to call

Call me before you act if a pop-up, email or phone call is pushing you to pay or share information and you're not sure — I'd much rather spend five minutes telling you it's fake than an hour cleaning up afterward. Call right away if you already let someone connect to the computer, paid a caller, or typed a password into a page that felt wrong. And call when you'd like the whole setup done for you: passwords, two-step verification, updates and a scam check are all things I do in a $49 remote session, and I can go through it again slowly in a tutoring lesson if you'd rather learn to do it yourself.

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